Do you Think that Technology is your Real Friend ???

            Some of people considered that technology is their friend. Because technology is always accompany them every day, even every time. Technology makes them be busy and spend so much time with it, start from children, adults, and old people. When parents give a technology like a gadget or laptop to their children, they will always playing with their gadget. So, when parents call them and ask to help, they might be refuse the parents asking, because they are busy with the gadget. So, parents will be feel that their children don’t want to accompany them. We can see on television or in our own real life. First, when our parents are sitting in the living room to take a rest and want to enjoy the time with lovely family together, we will rather to play our gadget in our room than come to the living room to accompany them. Although we are sitting beside in our parents, we will prefer play our gadget certainly to spend our time with have a talking with them. Second, if we have long distance relation with our parents. When we miss them and very want to meet them, even when we have a problem and we need a solution from our parents especially our mother, and she don’t have many time to come to us and hear our talk, they might be prefer activate the 3G to talk via mobile phone only to meet with us, although we feel that will be better if we meet face to face. It can be happen with ourselves too, when our parents want to meet us, might be we will just call them or send a short message than come to their place and meet them. It can be happen in our relationship with our beloved. Then, for woman who usually visited by her beloved every Saturday night, it is once a week, might be will be visited just once in two week or even until once a month. Because when her beloved feel miss her so much, he will call her or activate his 3G to talk and can see the face one another, it can makes the man loose his missing to the woman, and of course it will makes the woman feel so lonely. Because we know that woman is more happy when she can meet her beloved than just talking via mobile phone. If some special people in our life can’t there for us, we might be posting our talk in social media, then many people accompany us via chatting, finally we will be more busy with our gadget, it will be happen more and more. So, no time for us to do other important activities, and we will think that just technology can accompany us every time. In the same problem, when we are in the classroom, when the lecturer is explaining the lesson, we just look at the lecturer who is standing in front of the class and sometime just hear what is spoken by the lecturer. But in fact, we don’t understand what a mean of the lecturer present. It is because when he or she is explaining, we also play our gadget such as open message, social media like facebook, blackberry messenger, even any pair the headset to listening a music at the same time. Technology is make us missing everything important in our life, especially a time. A time for our parents, for our friends, for our beloved, and the important one is our time to study. So, don’t make a technology be our friend, because we will loosing our real friend in our life.